Getting Your Ex (or separated spouse) To Return Your Call

There are 'magic' words you can use to prompt your Ex to return your phone call (text or other message). Hard to believe?

It is true that breaking up almost always leaves both parties with anger, feelings of rejection, resentment and, sometimes, depression. Knowing that fact alone may be the first effective step for you to begin a path that will brighten the future with make up possibilities you haven't considered possible.

Honestly, there are words that almost cast a spell and cause your Ex to feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?.........

I chose to share this with you because out of some 35,000 or so subscribers, this is the most frequent question asked. How do I get my Ex to return my call? These people are just like you and me. Their efforts are engaged in putting the relationship back together but the Ex refuses to communicate.

So, I am going to answer.... “How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM.”

But........

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WARNING!!
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In the Magic of Making Up, there is a complete strategy laid out. Click here!
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If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy... you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
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WHAT NOT TO SAY!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.

And worse....

That puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' disadvantaged position. These typically fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD: Where the message sounds like “John, please, please, please call me. This is the third time I have called. I MUST talk to you.”

The EMERGENCY: “Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”

Perhaps you can see what is wrong with each and both of these approaches? Unfortunately, too often these are used – not the same words, perhaps, but the same psychological miscues.

So, no need to go on and on about them. Do not use them. Don't fall into that trap. Begin now to acquire the discipline to eliminate emotionally driven desperation from your thought process.

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How to use Curiosity & Self Interest to your advantage.
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

Now here's the big SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that works real 'magic' So, let's look at what you can say and how to say it that works most EVERY TIME.

“Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know that I appreciate what you did for me. Call me, because I want to thank you in person.”

Do you catch the power of the words and the attitude they require? When both curiosity and self interest are combined, the power is unmistakable.

John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” He will ask himself. “What does she appreciate?” He will be thinking and wondering. But, at the same time, he feels good because the message is positive and complimentary.

NOW before you make that call, you need to do the “set up”... and decide what IT is that he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing that he/she did that is plausible/believable. Nothing big is necessary here.

But more importantly...........

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2d WARNING!
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You must have an underlying strategy that is explained in the Magic of Making Up System before you call. Check it out. Click below
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If you use this technique without an underlying strategy and they call you back, you can do more DAMAGE than good. This must be handled correctly.

OKAY?

What I am saying and encouraging you to properly prepare for.......... Is What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Think about it.

Make sense?

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Here's rooting for you....Richard