Getting Your Ex (or separated spouse) To Return Your Call

There are 'magic' words you can use to prompt your Ex to return your phone call (text or other message). Hard to believe?

It is true that breaking up almost always leaves both parties with anger, feelings of rejection, resentment and, sometimes, depression. Knowing that fact alone may be the first effective step for you to begin a path that will brighten the future with make up possibilities you haven't considered possible.

Honestly, there are words that almost cast a spell and cause your Ex to feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?.........

I chose to share this with you because out of some 35,000 or so subscribers, this is the most frequent question asked. How do I get my Ex to return my call? These people are just like you and me. Their efforts are engaged in putting the relationship back together but the Ex refuses to communicate.

So, I am going to answer.... “How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM.”

But........

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WARNING!!
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In the Magic of Making Up, there is a complete strategy laid out. Click here!
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If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy... you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
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WHAT NOT TO SAY!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.

And worse....

That puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' disadvantaged position. These typically fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD: Where the message sounds like “John, please, please, please call me. This is the third time I have called. I MUST talk to you.”

The EMERGENCY: “Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”

Perhaps you can see what is wrong with each and both of these approaches? Unfortunately, too often these are used – not the same words, perhaps, but the same psychological miscues.

So, no need to go on and on about them. Do not use them. Don't fall into that trap. Begin now to acquire the discipline to eliminate emotionally driven desperation from your thought process.

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How to use Curiosity & Self Interest to your advantage.
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

Now here's the big SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that works real 'magic' So, let's look at what you can say and how to say it that works most EVERY TIME.

“Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know that I appreciate what you did for me. Call me, because I want to thank you in person.”

Do you catch the power of the words and the attitude they require? When both curiosity and self interest are combined, the power is unmistakable.

John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” He will ask himself. “What does she appreciate?” He will be thinking and wondering. But, at the same time, he feels good because the message is positive and complimentary.

NOW before you make that call, you need to do the “set up”... and decide what IT is that he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing that he/she did that is plausible/believable. Nothing big is necessary here.

But more importantly...........

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2d WARNING!
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You must have an underlying strategy that is explained in the Magic of Making Up System before you call. Check it out. Click below
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If you use this technique without an underlying strategy and they call you back, you can do more DAMAGE than good. This must be handled correctly.

OKAY?

What I am saying and encouraging you to properly prepare for.......... Is What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Think about it.

Make sense?

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Here's rooting for you....Richard

When Government chooses your Religion

Here are a couple of brief samples from the Newsletter content of
Voice of the Martyrs (serving the persecuted Church)February 2011 edition.

In Sunday School or bible study, I often speak of those who are being murdered (martyred) for their Christian faith or for delivering bibles or holding Home Church. On a selfish plane I am grateful that we are not required to manifest
our faith in such a hostile environment. Those who are often killed or sentenced to die have done nothing more than profess their faith in Jesus. I wonder what would I do if confronted with a death sentence for my Faith????

When these stories are heard, we often respond as follows:
Our tendency is to say WHY? Or, how can a loving God allow such atrocity? Or, our heart says "my God is more kind to me than allowing others to take my life for my faith in Jesus."

Jesus warned all disciples about the effect our faith in him would have on others. He gave us the warning and reasons why others would persecute us. If the world, at the time of Jesus, would not believe and allow Him to live, why should we expect any less? The following scripture provides a very poignant reminder of the reality that many around the world now face. When I see or hear of their persecution, I think how great it is that my Brothers and Sisters around the globe have unshakable faith. It strengthens me while causing me great distress.

John 15:20, Jesus said, "Remember the words I spoke to you:
No servant is greater than his master, if they persecuted me,
they will persecute you also..."

Matthew 5:10-12, Jesus said, "Blessed are those who are persecuted
because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed
are you when people insult you, persecute you, and say all manner of
evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great
is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the
prophets who were before you."

Here are a couple of excerpts from the latest Voice of the Martyrs
(Serving the Persecuted Church, February 2011).

The headline reads: "A Death Sentence for Asia Bibi" and below that is her
photograph. She appears to be a very young woman. Here is the essence
from the article.

"On a hot Friday afternoon in June 2009, Asia
Bibi left her post to get water for the other women
who were picking fruit with her. But the
women she worked with on the farm in Punjab
province, Pakistan, refused her hospitality, saying
the water was contaminated by her Christian
hands. Asia and the women reportedly had a
heated exchange about religion, and for more than
a week afterward, her Muslim co-workers taunted her
for being a Christian and insisted that she
should follow Mohammed. She finally replied,
"Our Christ sacrificed his life on the cross for our
sins. What has your prophet done for you? Our
Christ is alive. Your prophet is dead. Our Christ
is the true prophet of God and yours is not true."
Asia was charged with blasphemy and locked in
jail, where she remained for nearly 17 months
before being sentenced to death. At the time of this
writing, Asia was still in jail, pending the
outcome of a legal appeal to her death sentence.

Asia was convicted under Pakistan's cruel
blasphemy law, which mandates a jail sentence just
for talking "badly" about Mohammed. After more than 30
court hearings, Asia was sentenced to death in
November 2010.

Note: When told of Asia's death sentence, Muslim leader
Qari Salim told CNN, "Tears of joy poured from my eyes."
[I doubt anyone is expecting a reprieve from the pending
appeal. Full story at www.persecution.com/newsletter]

SECOND STORY:

The headline: "Iran's Supreme Leader Warns Against
House Church Movement"

"House Church leaders fear a new wave of persecution after
a threatening speech by Iran's supreme leader, Ayatolla Ali
Hoseini-Khamenei, in a speech on Oct. 19, 2010, he warned
against the 'network of house churches' that 'threaten Islamic faith
and deceive you Muslims.' Iranian Christians hope the
speech will not result in more pressure but instead will draw
more Iranians to Christ."

We in the USA have much for which to be grateful. A government
void of power to dictate our religious exercise of our faith is
arguably a big one. Please pray for those of our Brothers and Sisters
in Christ who are harassed and/or persecuted for their faith in our
Lord, King and Savior, Jesus the Christ.

I am grateful for those who are providing Bibles in the native languages
for the countries where house churches are beginning and often flourishing.
Whether we live free depends on the price we are willing to pay and the
price others are willing to pay to protect our freedom.

God bless you, R
Richard Darnell

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